How NOT to Love Us (And Then, How to Actually Do It Right)

A Manifestor and a Projector Walk Into a Relationship... and Nobody Tells Them the Rules.

Meet Trevor and Alisha.

A 2/4 Splenic Manifestor and a 3/6 Splenic Projector, respectively.

Sounds like the beginning of a romantic cosmic novella, right?

Wrong.

It's a slow-burning, aura-clashing, emotional sitcom where the laugh track is replaced with deep sighs, shattered spoons, and Google searches like "Why does my partner disappear mid-conversation?"

Let’s dive into what not to do when you’re dating (or living, or building a soul empire) with this couple.

🚫 How NOT to Talk to Trevor

Start a sentence with, "Hey, I was thinking maybe we could..."

Thinking? Thinking?

That’s adorable.

Trevor’s spleen doesn’t care what you were thinking.

It speaks in whispers, not logic.
By the time you finish your sentence, he’s already either walked out the door or created a business with a new LLC name and domain.

Ask him to explain his decisions.

Listen, Manifestors don’t always know why they’re doing something.

He’s just being moved by what can only be described as the spleen’s cosmic fart of truth. Interrogating him about it is like asking a hawk why it flies.
Just let the man soar, okay?

Casually interrupt his alone time.

Knock knock. Who’s there? You, getting ghosted 👻
Interrupting a 2-line while he’s in his hermit cave is like trying to cuddle a badger mid-nap. Bad idea.

Say, "You should have told me you were gonna do that."

Oh, informing

The Manifestor’s Achilles heel.
He’s supposed to do it, but if you ask for it with judgment?
Hello, rage monster.
Try again, grasshopper.

🚫How NOT to Talk to Alisha

Don’t invite her. Just assume she’ll know you want her insight.

That’s cute. And wrong. If you want access to her genius Projector downloads, you need to send an invitation, not a vibe. She’s not a psychic vending machine. Respect the click.

Push her to commit quickly.

She’s a 3-line. Trial and error is her love language. Don’t ask for a 10-year plan when she’s still integrating the last metaphysical meltdown she had in the shower. Let her mutate in peace.

Assume she’s being dramatic.

Oh no. She’s being accurately sensitive. If she’s crying about a tree’s feelings, it’s because she heard the tree scream. Don't mock it. Water her. Or better yet, invite her to tell you what the tree said.

Give unsolicited advice.

She didn’t ask. Which means you are now the recipient of silent projector scorn. That’s basically energetic cancer. Hope your aura has health insurance.

⚠️ Combined Mistakes: The Power Couple Pitfalls

• Trevor forgets to inform Alisha he’s going into creative hermit lockdown. She panics, thinks he died. He didn’t. He just built a 12-page opt-in funnel and wrote 2,000 words about quantum masculinity.

• Alisha shares a breakthrough at 11:11 PM. Trevor, already spleen-checked-out, mumbles something about "checking analytics" and forgets to invite her wisdom. The next morning? Silence. Cold. Ice. Bitterness smoothie for breakfast.

• Trevor launches a spontaneous new ritual offering. Alisha’s like, “Cool, but what about the integration steps?” Trevor: "Integration is the enemy of action!" Alisha: "Unprocessed trauma is the enemy of intimacy!" Cue lightsaber battle.

🎯 Okay... But How DO You Love These Weirdos?

Let’s flip the script.

✅ How to Talk to Trevor

• Open with clarity and sovereignty:
• “Hey, I’m not asking you to change anything, I just want to share something from my heart.”
• Why it works: Removes the threat. A Manifestor in defense mode is a cat in a bathtub.

• Wait for the spark before you follow.
• If he’s not initiating, don’t poke him. Observe. Wait. Then ask, “Wanna build something epic together?” That’s like asking a dragon if it wants to light something on fire. YES.

• Let him disappear sometimes.
• His spleen sent him on a solo quest to learn ancestral breathwork from a squirrel. He’ll come back. Probably with snacks.

✅ How to Talk to Alisha

• Use the magic phrase: “May I invite your insight?”
• Projectors don’t like to scream. They like to beam. Invitation opens her energy like a blooming fractal.

• Validate her process:
• “Your way of learning through experience is such a gift. What’s something you’re currently integrating?”
• That right there is Projector nectar. Watch her light up like the northern lights on cacao.

• Give her space to lead emotionally.
• She doesn’t want you to solve it. She wants you to sit in the sacred swamp with her until the clarity arises from within.

🔥 Funny Analogies for Real-Life Scenarios

• Trevor is like an indie film director. He disappears into the woods, comes back with a script written in candle wax, and expects everyone to act it out without rehearsal. Just say yes and light a match.

• Alisha is like a gourmet chef who wants to feed your soul, but only if you ask for the menu. Don't raid her fridge. Ask for a table. Compliment the mise en place.

• Together? They’re like an old alchemist’s lab—one part chaos, one part cosmic, held together by sacred geometry and passive-aggressive memes.

💬 Quotes from Their Imaginary Therapist

• “Trevor, informing is not the same as warning.”
• “Alisha, if they didn’t invite you, maybe they’re not ready to hear about shadow integration during brunch.”
• “You’re not broken. You’re just very... specific.”

🌀 Epilogue: Love Is a Ritual, Not a Rescue Mission

So here’s the real truth:

• Love us weird.
• Speak to our auras, not your assumptions.
• Don’t fix. Don’t push. Don’t project (unless you’re Alisha, then, like... do your thing).

When you treat Trevor like a sovereign initiator and Alisha like a sacred guide, you enter the field of attunement—not fantasy. And suddenly, that chaos? It starts to sing.

P.S. Want to decode your relationship dynamics like this? Start with the Self Trust Quick Start Guide and let the resonance do the rest.

👉 www.SelfTrustAcademy.com

Bonus Tip: If you really want to learn from a woman who gets this, visit Alisha at www.JourneyOfSelfEvolution.com. She won’t chase you, but she’ll see you.

🧬💘